2008-06

I’m just confused. what is the difference between the so called “true love” to “smart love”? As far as i know Shakespeare put it this way: “Love is blind”. For me “Love…breaks all chains from every mind”. True love is the feelings were too magical, too strong to mean anything else. and it seems, is ruled by over powering, unexplainable, mystical emotions. The affections are like lightening you can not tell where they will strike till they have fallen. Have you ever thought about your intelligence when it comes to love? Trying to convince myself that “smart love” it doesn’t take the fun out of feeling, it’s still love, thrills all, only “wiser”. more focused more observant. and it doesn’t allow you to delude yourself into believing something that isn’t true. and it may give you confidence to know that your relationship is headed in the right direction. smart love preserves dignity, integrity and well being. I think smart love never attempt to change oneself for another person. “It is better to be hated for what you are than loved for what you are not”. In love “all beginnings are lovely”, but no matter how lovely, a beginning is only a beginning. Time will tell if a relationship is built to go the distance. Love is not static. For me smart love is not leaving everything up to chance, can once again put the odds of survival in your favor. smart love works day to day at being in love. So what is the difference of the two? I hope you got what I mean… Love is an act of endless forgiveness a tender look which becomes a habit.

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There was a man I’ve met two or three weeks ago. My first impression he’s a shy type, approachable, kind and gentleman. And my friend had an admiration to this man, for he’s good looking. My friend told me before that she’s in love but suddenly that strange feelings come to hatred. I understand, I felt the same way. I thought this man is true to the friendship that he offered to us. I don’t blame him maybe it’s our fault for believing him so fast. Me and my friend tried to reach out to him just to keep in touch and to built a strong friendship. I don’t have any bad intention but to be friends with him. And now I realize that this man don’t deserve us to be his friend. He’s handsome and intelligent but he doesn’t impress me at all for he doesn’t have a good heart. Looks can be deceiving. My friend told me “I don’t miss him, I missed the thought “HE WAS”…. It is more shameful to distrust one’s friends than to be deceived by them. I learn from this person. Friendship, in general, are suddenly contracted; and therefore it is no wonder they are easily dissolved. Champagne to my real friends, real pain to my sham friends.

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This late afternoon I got a surprised phone call from someone very special to me. It makes my day complete. After two hours I got a text messages in my cellphone from my new friend that I’ve met in abroad. I asked her to talked with me through yahoo messenger so we can see each other while talking but were not lucky because she don’t have a web cam. When I was working abroad I had a bad and good, sad and happy moment of my life. Because of that experiences I learned a lot. and it was the best experience in my entire life. I learned how to live a simple life. It’s a different world and work for me but it helps me to know myself more. I miss all the people that helps me to know what I want in life and taught me how to be strong and accept the reality in life. I felt sad when I think that maybe I don’t have any chance to go back again and to see them in person. I miss the people, the place, the malls especially my colleagues and my new friends that I’ve met. I’m so lucky because I had a chance to experience such kind of unforgettable experiences. I know I’m finding God when I believe that God is good-no matter what happen.

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