2008-06-04

I’m just confused. what is the difference between the so called “true love” to “smart love”? As far as i know Shakespeare put it this way: “Love is blind”. For me “Love…breaks all chains from every mind”. True love is the feelings were too magical, too strong to mean anything else. and it seems, is ruled by over powering, unexplainable, mystical emotions. The affections are like lightening you can not tell where they will strike till they have fallen. Have you ever thought about your intelligence when it comes to love? Trying to convince myself that “smart love” it doesn’t take the fun out of feeling, it’s still love, thrills all, only “wiser”. more focused more observant. and it doesn’t allow you to delude yourself into believing something that isn’t true. and it may give you confidence to know that your relationship is headed in the right direction. smart love preserves dignity, integrity and well being. I think smart love never attempt to change oneself for another person. “It is better to be hated for what you are than loved for what you are not”. In love “all beginnings are lovely”, but no matter how lovely, a beginning is only a beginning. Time will tell if a relationship is built to go the distance. Love is not static. For me smart love is not leaving everything up to chance, can once again put the odds of survival in your favor. smart love works day to day at being in love. So what is the difference of the two? I hope you got what I mean… Love is an act of endless forgiveness a tender look which becomes a habit.

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