2008-06

When a WOMAN is quiet… millions of things are running in her mind. When a WOMAN is not arguing… she is thinking deeply. When a WOMAN looks at you with eyes full of questions… she is wondering how long you will be around. When a WOMAN answers “I’m fine” after a few seconds… she is not all fine.

When a WOMAN stares at you… she is wondering why you are lying. When a WOMAN lays on your chest… she is wishing for you to be hers forever. When a WOMAN wants to see you everyday… she wants to be pampered. When a WOMAN says “I love you”… she means it. When a WOMAN says “I miss you”… no one in this world can miss you more than that.

Life only comes around once make sure you spend it with the right person… Find a guy… who calls you beautiful instead of hot. Who calls you back when you hung up on him. Who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the guy who… kisses your forehead. Who wants to show you off the to the world when you are in your sweats. Who holds your hand in front of his friends. Who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you. Who turns to his friends and says, “That’s her!!!”

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I meet my old filipino-chinese friend. We took dinner in a fine restaurant. He’s still the same. So nice, kind and caring man. It’s been a year we didn’t see each other then, so we miss each others company. This rich guy was one of my loyal friend he always advised me about my personal problem. I thank God for having him in my life because he taught me many things about life. And I remember what he said to me when I was so down and I’m about to give up. “Be strong, remember not everything has a happy ending. And endings don’t mean stop! It’s just a way of telling us that there is a new beginning ahead of us… You always be ready for the unpredictable, expect the unexpected… It’s easy to fall but hard to get up. But once we up and back on tract you will be a better person. That’s the way of life! You don’t just live it, you learn from it.” Yeah! he’s right. Now I can tell it to myself, I will never give up when everything falls into pieces. Never lose hope when everybody turns their back on me. and to always remember, life isn’t fair, it’s about surpassing the unfair reality! Sometimes, I put too much passion on the biggest dreams and priorities in life that I fail to love the smallest pleasures from simple things. I search so much for the right choices, for the right paths to walk through, for the right time and for the right reasons. But life isn’t about searching for the things that can be found. It is about letting the unexpected happen and finding things I never searched for…

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I come to realize that love was not enough to make a relationship work. We need trust, respect, time, effort and total commitment. For a person doesn’t show respect, doesn’t earn your trust and can’t keep a promise. Then no matter how many times they say “I love you”, those words will be empty… Take time to listen to what they don’t say… Take time to look at what they don’t show because there are secrets hidden beneath their words… So don’t let passion but wisdom decide for you. Love wisely because it’s never easy to love… and get hurt.

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