2008-07-16

Why do we so seldom disclose our deepest emotions, even to friends? Many reasons, My thought was if I reveal my needs or get emotional, people will not like me. But my expectation is opposite. People begin to feel close to me when they know something of my needs. In my depressing moment I’m lucky because my family and friends is always there to comfort and reminds me that life is a test, and I need to pass all the trials in order to survive and to live in a meaningful life. Mostly I express my sadness by crying to a sudden relief from hurts or for being lonely. Tears are a great gift from God. Crying need not to be a sign of weakness or an imposition on the person who witnesses it. I honor the person with whom I cry. I feel I’m getting close and deepen my relationship to that person. Most of our communications nonverbal, our tears when it falls naturally, can be a means of getting closer to others. Revealing my true feelings and showing my tears to the people whom I trust and love makes me realize that I’m strong and human.

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