- 2008-07-16 (Wed) 19:22
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Why do we so seldom disclose our deepest emotions, even to friends? Many reasons, My thought was if I reveal my needs or get emotional, people will not like me. But my expectation is opposite. People begin to feel close to me when they know something of my needs. In my depressing moment I’m lucky because my family and friends is always there to comfort and reminds me that life is a test, and I need to pass all the trials in order to survive and to live in a meaningful life. Mostly I express my sadness by crying to a sudden relief from hurts or for being lonely. Tears are a great gift from God. Crying need not to be a sign of weakness or an imposition on the person who witnesses it. I honor the person with whom I cry. I feel I’m getting close and deepen my relationship to that person. Most of our communications nonverbal, our tears when it falls naturally, can be a means of getting closer to others. Revealing my true feelings and showing my tears to the people whom I trust and love makes me realize that I’m strong and human.
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- Brenda 08-07-16 (Wed) 20:37
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Don’t think too much of the problems in life, they are just test papers given by God to see how much we learn in his subject called “LIFE” if you think you failed… don’t worry cause HE is always ready to give remedial classes, so review through prayers and have the perfect score of “happiness.”
- Malou 08-07-16 (Wed) 21:38
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Hello Brenda
Thank you for your concern and comment.
Yeah! life is too short. I have to forget the pains of yesterday and see the chance the new day brings, and to laugh again…
Good night and take care! - N.A.I. 08-07-19 (Sat) 15:11
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Love can heal the deepest wounds, but it can also create them.
- One Friend 08-07-19 (Sat) 15:48
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The first time I saw you, I was afraid to meet you. The first time I met you I was afraid to like you. After I liked you I was afraid to love you. Now that I love you, I’m afraid to lose you. Now that I’ve lost you, I’m afraid to love you again…
- Malou 08-07-19 (Sat) 23:09
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Hello N.A.I
Good evening! thank you for visiting my blog
and posting a comment.
wounds heal, leaving nothing behind but a scar.
take care and good night. - Malou 08-07-19 (Sat) 23:12
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Hello Friend
Thank you for the nice comment.
Love is sacrifice and giving.
take care and good night!
Happy weekend!
Name: Malou