2008-05

This past few days it’s hard for me to go to sleep. The worst was last night. I had a hectic schedule yesterday, I had a whole day meeting in our office after that I went to ortigas center in the office of my former boss to discuss about the business proposals of the group. Planning for the coming events going out of town for the company outing and etc. I feel I’m so wasted. Stress out, my mind is not working because of lack of sleep, no appetite at all. I want to sleep but when I’m in my bed I can’t sleep. Is this insomnia or a simple stress? Today I don’t have energy to go to work, I just stay home and trying to get rest and sleep, but still I cant. some of my friends advice me to drink a bottle of beer just to fall sleep or take some medicine just to get some sleep. I have an appointment tomorrow morning i need some rest. I’m not a person who’s into drugs, but I have to take it to get some sleep tonight. By the way my baby is sick since Tuesday so another reason for me why I can’t sleep because I’m worried, I can’t take care my baby she needs me especially now that she is sick but her father don’t allow her to stay with me. Oh God! please let me have enough sleep tonight…

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Being a modern woman my world is full of challenges, and matters such as health, career, personal and family life. Looking good and feeling great is important to all women. Good health. both physical and mental, is a priceless possession that every woman-regardless of age, occupation, or social standing must care for and nurture. Health is certainly more valuable than money because it is by health that money is earned. In my personal experience meeting new people is just the first step in forming relationships that last. Loyalty sincerity, thoughtfulness, and kindness are some of the ingredients of a true friendship. I learn not to worry about what people think, respect myself and learn to compliment and appreciate others, and learn to forgive. Making people feel guilty for their mistakes makes me miserable. If we refuse to forgive people, you’ll be harming your relationships, your own life. free ourself of hatred, bearing grudges will only make it difficult for us to trust anyone. then it will be impossible for us to be happy. When it comes to my career i learn how to handle the stress of work. More and more people are finding it hard to cope with the pressure of making a living, keeping a social profile, and maintaining a healthy personal and family life. Today’s world is really demanding and tiring. It puts a lot of pressure on your life and test your ability to cope. Anybody can deal with the pressures of life , but coping joyfully is a different matter it is a better way to have a fulfilling life despite the challenges. Lets make our life simple. Simplicity allows you to be free from stress, value people instead of things. I believe that woman is like the reed that bends to every breeze, but does not break in storm. Treat problem as lessons like what i experience now. Strength comes not from joy but from suffering. And i learn to value and enjoy relationships. Forgiveness saves the expense of anger, the cost of hatred, the waste of spirits. Everyone has the right to be happy, everyone is born with the potential to succeed. All we need is to tap into that potential, nurture it not only in yourself but in others as well-and make it a reality. To all women of today rather than discourage you, have a better sense of humanity . Do not blame yourself if you stumble and fall. Whats important is your capacity to rise up again With determination, love, patience, and prayer, we can face the challenges of life. Life is the only real counselor…

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After office when I was in the elevator there was a gentleman who’s not so good looking but he looks neat in his business suit. He is tall and a dark skin, a type of a man that mostly of the women in town dream of to be their boyfriend. He smiled at me and I smiled back. To be honest I like man who’s wearing a business suit. But it depends on the occasion. What most caught my attention was his smell, his wearing a perfume. A smell that so familiar to me. A Bulgari perfume. I remember someone of that smell. I like man who wears perfumes a good smell one. Not all perfumes suits in one’s body chemistry, we should know what kind or brand of perfumes that suits to our body chemistry. Not all men likes wearing perfumes but for me a man who wears perfumes all the time is a sign of being clean and he takes care his body. Some says natural smell is better than wearing a perfume, everyone of us have our own likes and dislikes. But mostly women I know likes men who wears perfume. Smelling fresh all the time makes our life more vibrant and attract more guys and ladies in any circle of life and attract more opportunity in life. Being neat and smells good all the time signifies who we are as a person. And it doesn’t matter what brand of perfume your wearing as long as it’s smells good on you.

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