2008-04

I got a surprise call today from my long lost friend. I’ve known him for more than 4 years. I never thought that we could be best of friends. I met this man during my inquires how to be a dealer or retailer of one brand of softdrinks here in town. He helped me for he is the one who’s in charge to explain to me the in and out of this kind of business. To make the story short we became friends, but he advised me not to pursue this kind of business because this business is not suitable for me. He’s really a good man he treat me well, if I have problems he’s always there for me. I treat him like my father, my older brother, and my best friend. The only thing what I don’t like, when he told me that he loves me. I was so surprised when I knew it, that he has a special feelings for me. I felt so uncomfortable when we see each other because I don’t feel the same. I felt he betrayed our friendship. I didn’t see him for almost half a year because of that reason. But we accidentally met again. I talked to him about his feelings for me. and we settled it, he understands me. But there was something he wants from me, that was to let him love me. After that moment we still have some communication. before I left for abroad he wish me good luck and hoping that the next time we met again our friendship still the same. And now after a year he told me that his feelings for me is still the same. I thank him for being a good friend and for loving me unconditionally. I wish that he will find the right woman who will love him back, because he deserves it. Relationships are always worth restoring. Thank you Lord for giving me a blessings to have a true friends who loves me for what I am. And to discover my role in life through my relationships with others.

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I’m not a typical practical person. But when it comes to my life decisions I use my heart and mind. My family and friends told me to be practical when it comes to my love problems, and think of my future. They told me at my age don’t think about love but think where I can be comfortable in life. Meaning not to use my heart but use my head! Their concern is acceptable to me and I respect their views. So many comments and suggestions but in the end I’m the one who will be responsible of my own life. I know what I want in life. I know money is important in this world to buy all the things we need in order to live a descent life. But there is something that you can not buy in this materialistic world. That is LOVE! I always says that money is not everything! some says it’s important! Having all the material things we need in life it doesn’t mean that we’re happy and contented of what we have. People never be contented we always look for something to satisfies our wants and needs. It happens to me sometimes and I never been happy. Material things sometimes it make us happy but it never last and it can be replace when we lost it. In love when we lost it we can’t get back what we lost. I believe that LOVE is what really matters and how you treated other people , not wealth and accomplishments, is the most enduring impact you can leave on earth. like Mother Theresa said “Its not what you do, but how much love you put into it that matters”. Love is the secret of a lasting heritage.

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It’s a fine day! I went to my doctor again for a follow up check up, it’s kind a little irritating because I’ve waited for 3 and half hours before i got my turn to talk to my doctor. While waiting for my turn there was a young couple who keeps smiling at me, they’re also waiting for their turn to be called for the pre-natal check up. I approached the young girl then we talk. She ask me if I’m single and I said yes! but I’m a mother. at first she don’t believe that I’m a mother. We talk many things about being a mother at my young age, I shared some experiences. What most got my attention is her husband they’re both 19 years old, so young to have a responsibility of being a father soon. It’s good to see a young couple that at their young age they know how to handle and how to be responsible. I wish them good luck for having a baby soon! And I told them to take care of their baby and their relationships being a husband and wife. Because 90% of a young marriages is not successful they ended apart. The young husband smile and said. Age doesn’t matter young or matured couple no one else wanted to be turn out like ending apart, it is depends on the couple. I just smile because at his young age he don’t know what his talking about. Too young to know the real world of a married people, poor young man. But he got some point, age doesn’t matter when it comes to a relationships if they know how to take care of their relationships it will last forever. I admire those man who knows how to take care of one’s relationships, to love and respect their wife, girlfriend, mother, daughter freely and unconditionally. In any relationships it must have trust, love, and respect. Love is the greatest of all. If you have love in your heart in anything and everything you do, you will never go wrong in your life. And I may add. To the married couple, make God the center of your relationships anything is possible to him. “Let love be your aim” Life without love is really worthless. Love is not good part in your life; it is the most important part!

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