My Heart And Me
The Woman’s World
- 2008-05-06 (Tue)
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Being a modern woman my world is full of challenges, and matters such as health, career, personal and family life. Looking good and feeling great is important to all women. Good health. both physical and mental, is a priceless possession that every woman-regardless of age, occupation, or social standing must care for and nurture. Health is certainly more valuable than money because it is by health that money is earned. In my personal experience meeting new people is just the first step in forming relationships that last. Loyalty sincerity, thoughtfulness, and kindness are some of the ingredients of a true friendship. I learn not to worry about what people think, respect myself and learn to compliment and appreciate others, and learn to forgive. Making people feel guilty for their mistakes makes me miserable. If we refuse to forgive people, you’ll be harming your relationships, your own life. free ourself of hatred, bearing grudges will only make it difficult for us to trust anyone. then it will be impossible for us to be happy. When it comes to my career i learn how to handle the stress of work. More and more people are finding it hard to cope with the pressure of making a living, keeping a social profile, and maintaining a healthy personal and family life. Today’s world is really demanding and tiring. It puts a lot of pressure on your life and test your ability to cope. Anybody can deal with the pressures of life , but coping joyfully is a different matter it is a better way to have a fulfilling life despite the challenges. Lets make our life simple. Simplicity allows you to be free from stress, value people instead of things. I believe that woman is like the reed that bends to every breeze, but does not break in storm. Treat problem as lessons like what i experience now. Strength comes not from joy but from suffering. And i learn to value and enjoy relationships. Forgiveness saves the expense of anger, the cost of hatred, the waste of spirits. Everyone has the right to be happy, everyone is born with the potential to succeed. All we need is to tap into that potential, nurture it not only in yourself but in others as well-and make it a reality. To all women of today rather than discourage you, have a better sense of humanity . Do not blame yourself if you stumble and fall. Whats important is your capacity to rise up again With determination, love, patience, and prayer, we can face the challenges of life. Life is the only real counselor…
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Perfumes
- 2008-05-05 (Mon)
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After office when I was in the elevator there was a gentleman who’s not so good looking but he looks neat in his business suit. He is tall and a dark skin, a type of a man that mostly of the women in town dream of to be their boyfriend. He smiled at me and I smiled back. To be honest I like man who’s wearing a business suit. But it depends on the occasion. What most caught my attention was his smell, his wearing a perfume. A smell that so familiar to me. A Bulgari perfume. I remember someone of that smell. I like man who wears perfumes a good smell one. Not all perfumes suits in one’s body chemistry, we should know what kind or brand of perfumes that suits to our body chemistry. Not all men likes wearing perfumes but for me a man who wears perfumes all the time is a sign of being clean and he takes care his body. Some says natural smell is better than wearing a perfume, everyone of us have our own likes and dislikes. But mostly women I know likes men who wears perfume. Smelling fresh all the time makes our life more vibrant and attract more guys and ladies in any circle of life and attract more opportunity in life. Being neat and smells good all the time signifies who we are as a person. And it doesn’t matter what brand of perfume your wearing as long as it’s smells good on you.
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Tantrums
- 2008-05-04 (Sun)
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Early this morning my daughter had a bad day! She don’t want to attend her ballet class. Before we slept last night she told me “Mama we have a recital and I want you to watch me”. And I said “Oh that’s great! Sorry baby I can’t go” and she said “Why mama? you don’t want to watch me? you don’t love me? your not proud of me? those questions melts my heart again. And I told her the truth, “Baby I can’t go because your grandma and your father is there, I’m not ready to see them” and she said “Mama just ignore them anyway your there because of me not because of them”. My daughter had a point, and I said I will try to come but I can’t promise. Then she hug me tightly and kiss good night and whispered “I wish you will come to my recital because if your not there I will not perform. So sweet! This morning she cried so hard she said “Mama I want to stay with you, I don’t like to go to Makati (the house where she stays with her father) I don’t want to attend my ballet class”. In the elevator she hug me so tight while crying out loud and she don’t want to let go of me. I thought this scenario was over, it’s been more than a year since the last time she cried so hard while leaving my place. Is it because of last night? I’m being so selfish to her. Because of my selfishness I forgot to think about her feelings. Hurting my daughters feelings hurts me more. I’m so sorry baby, I didn’t mean to hurt you. Being a mother my love to her is unquestionable and unconditional, for she’s one of the reasons why I survived all the challenges in life. My strength and my inspiration in everything I do. I love my daughter so much! I will sacrifice my own feelings for her happiness. And I will not let my stupid pride to hurt her again and ruin her happiness. Learning to love unselfishly is not an easy task. It runs counter to our self-centered nature.That’s why we’re given a lifetime to learn it.
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