2009-11-05

I am still wondering whether all the work involved in repairing a broken relationships worth it. Unfortunately I can’t guarantee that it is. Some relationships, no matter how hard you try, never recover the joy they once had. (sigh!) But if I feel regret or remorse when I think about a former friend and do nothing about it, I’ll never know what might have been. And even if the relationship isn’t revived, I’ll never know the satisfaction that comes from trying. That was I learned in an attempt to recover my lost relationship with my family and with my former best friends. A friendship I considered to be of priceless value mysteriously vanished. It was relief as well as regret. We both knew there would be no going back to the way things once were. This was a friendship reconciled, but no recovered, Was that enough? Was it worth the effort? Friendship and connection fail because of some reasons like positive or negative change in one person’s life, neglect of the relationship, or betrayal that is either intentional or unintentional. When it comes to the practical side of mending a broken relationship with a friend, I learned to count the cost, make contact, I must forgive, diagnose the problem, and rebuild respect, it would be most difficult for me to take and ask what could I do to make taking this step a bit easier? Friendship is a long conversation. God gives us relatives-Thank God I can choose my friends.

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