2008-11

Attitude is everything! Anyone working with other people knows how important attitude is in determining the successful outcome of any task. Now my attitude and thoughts must all be constantly changing for the better. The importance of attitude seems so clear to me when I look at other people. How open do we think or say about one person that they have attitude problem. I see some people around me who have the greatest intentions and whose motives are spiritually and morally sound but can not succeed because their attitude is negative and self critical. We want God’s very best for ourselves and our relationships. We all have right and good intentions, set goals to ourselves. Experiences are not enough, knowledge is never enough either. The one thing, from a human perspective, that seems to make the difference between those who succeed and those who fail is attitude. No matter who you are, attitude is everything. It’s what makes the difference in every aspect of life. I remember, before when I face a problem, the first thing in mind is to protest and thinks the easy way to get rid the problem. Immature way. Through my life experiences I tend to set my goals or expanding my knowledge base. My attitude now is the product of my life experiences. Let’s look life in a positive way! Anything is possible, God is always there for us.

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There’s a reason why flowers are pretty. Flowers are colourful in order to be attractive in the green sea of forest. Flowers communicate information about themselves to animals and insects, telling them where there is a source of food and about their condition. Humans also find flowers beautiful. When someone gives me flowers to express their emotions I feel so happy and appreciated. Flowers makes my day so colorful. Every person gives off certain signals, make them desirable to a potential mate. They are coded messages transmitted and then received back, which tell another person how suitable they might be for our purposes. For a man, attraction occurs on a biological level, when a woman displays attributes that may allow him to successfully pass his genes on to the next generation. For a woman, an attractive man is one who, on a biological level, can provide food and safety for her during the process of child rearing, which explains why women are generally attracted to older men. “Women like older men because they have more experience and greater access to resources.” In my experiences, men prefer looks to brain because most men see better than they can think. A woman’s appearance and body and what she can do with it is more attractive to men than her intelligence or assets. Men and women have each own beauty. We all need to realize what really matters in this world is our relationships to both sexes. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

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Late afternoon today, me and my colleagues had a simple get together. We talked about what happened behind our event last week. Making fun to each other of our funny and stressful moment during the party. Suddenly we talked about their girlfriends and their ex-girlfriends who were there in the event. One of them share his personal views about woman. At the age of 24, he likes having a romantic relationship to a woman older than him. He added, “mature woman knows how to handle one relationships, not jealous type and let me do things I want to do, not a control freak, Unlike younger ones so stressful.” And I added “someone who are financially stable?” He smiled and said no! I’m just attracted to a woman who are older than me, the financial stability is a plus factor.” Now a days some men are being practical too. Some are looking not only for inner and outer beauty, who are financially stable as well. I agree with him. I’m attracted also to those men who are older than me. I have suitors who are younger and older than me. I like the older ones because they are matured enough and understanding in many ways. And someone who can control my craziness sometimes, and someone who will teach me and to learn more about life and relationships. We all have our own preferences in choosing our life partner younger or older than us. what matter most is the love and respect to each other.

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