2008-09-18

I met my good friend this late afternoon together with his lawyer friend. I asked some legal advise for my personal problems about my legal rights to my children and other concerns. We talked for almost four hours. I felt I’m so lucky to have a friend like him. He’s always there for me when I need someone to talk with, about my personal and legal problems. Maybe because he experienced what I’m experiencing now. He knows my feelings and of course he’s more experienced in many ways. His lawyer friend made a joke on us. “Both of you look good together.” We laughed to loosen up the serious topics we discussed. Then the lawyer left us for another meeting. My friend advised me to take care of myself always. He knows what I’m going through. He added “You need to generate love inside yourself so that you can give it freely to others. We cannot expect love first. We need to give it out, in order to receive it back. I know by doing that. Just like a saying: ” Love wasn’t put in your heart to stay. Love isn’t love until you give it away.” I know and I felt something the first time we met many years ago. I knew there was a feeling of more than friends he wanted to offer but he’s really a gentleman. He never took advantage on me, with that quality, he earn my trust and respect. He’s one of a “few good man” I’ve known. I know what he meant for his advise.

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