My Heart And Me

I’m not a typical practical person. But when it comes to my life decisions I use my heart and mind. My family and friends told me to be practical when it comes to my love problems, and think of my future. They told me at my age don’t think about love but think where I can be comfortable in life. Meaning not to use my heart but use my head! Their concern is acceptable to me and I respect their views. So many comments and suggestions but in the end I’m the one who will be responsible of my own life. I know what I want in life. I know money is important in this world to buy all the things we need in order to live a descent life. But there is something that you can not buy in this materialistic world. That is LOVE! I always says that money is not everything! some says it’s important! Having all the material things we need in life it doesn’t mean that we’re happy and contented of what we have. People never be contented we always look for something to satisfies our wants and needs. It happens to me sometimes and I never been happy. Material things sometimes it make us happy but it never last and it can be replace when we lost it. In love when we lost it we can’t get back what we lost. I believe that LOVE is what really matters and how you treated other people , not wealth and accomplishments, is the most enduring impact you can leave on earth. like Mother Theresa said “Its not what you do, but how much love you put into it that matters”. Love is the secret of a lasting heritage.

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It’s a fine day! I went to my doctor again for a follow up check up, it’s kind a little irritating because I’ve waited for 3 and half hours before i got my turn to talk to my doctor. While waiting for my turn there was a young couple who keeps smiling at me, they’re also waiting for their turn to be called for the pre-natal check up. I approached the young girl then we talk. She ask me if I’m single and I said yes! but I’m a mother. at first she don’t believe that I’m a mother. We talk many things about being a mother at my young age, I shared some experiences. What most got my attention is her husband they’re both 19 years old, so young to have a responsibility of being a father soon. It’s good to see a young couple that at their young age they know how to handle and how to be responsible. I wish them good luck for having a baby soon! And I told them to take care of their baby and their relationships being a husband and wife. Because 90% of a young marriages is not successful they ended apart. The young husband smile and said. Age doesn’t matter young or matured couple no one else wanted to be turn out like ending apart, it is depends on the couple. I just smile because at his young age he don’t know what his talking about. Too young to know the real world of a married people, poor young man. But he got some point, age doesn’t matter when it comes to a relationships if they know how to take care of their relationships it will last forever. I admire those man who knows how to take care of one’s relationships, to love and respect their wife, girlfriend, mother, daughter freely and unconditionally. In any relationships it must have trust, love, and respect. Love is the greatest of all. If you have love in your heart in anything and everything you do, you will never go wrong in your life. And I may add. To the married couple, make God the center of your relationships anything is possible to him. “Let love be your aim” Life without love is really worthless. Love is not good part in your life; it is the most important part!

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Being in love is the most wonderful thing that had happen to me. It just happens at the wrong place and at the wrong time. I know at first is not right to fall in love with him because he has a girlfriend. I’m not a bad girl like what you think, I’m just a woman who learns to fall in love with this man that I never expect I would, even in my wildest dream. And now I’m facing my consequences, I never thought that it would be painful that almost break my heart into pieces. I’m so confused! Concerned people keeps telling me that he is not the right man for me, he’s not good for me, he don’t deserve me and I deserve better than him! It’s hard to decide especially when your down and hurt by your love. But I have to do one thing to stop being hurt and to do whats good for both of us. I can’t live this way of being hurt and to love a man who’s having two girlfriends at one time. Love is blind and it hurts. It took me for a while to realize that he treat me like one of his collection. I trusted him and love him more than I love myself but it’s not enough for him. I know it’s hard to say goodbye to the person whom I really love but why I prolong the pain that it will come to nothing. I know at first it would be very painful but I trust God for having a better plans for me, and having a purpose for all the pain that I’m going through. I LOVE YOU and GOODBYE!

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