My Heart And Me
Longing for Belonging
- 2008-06-19 (Thu)
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There is no substitute for the comfort supplied by the utterly taken-for granted relationship. What really makes people happy? nor success, wealth, achievement, good looks, or any of those enviable assets. I believe the clear winner is relationships. “No man is an island.” We need to belong. “Aren’t all of us, even with people all around, susceptible to loneliness?” I think “yes” What ever the reason, everyone agrees that no matter what our age, we all have a deep longing for belonging. We want to be wanted, accepted, enjoyed, and loved. No one is too big, strong, talented, or tough to go without belonging. To share the experience of being alone for a long time. The need to belong is not just about feeling warm and accepted, however. it’s literally a matter of life and death. In my own experience happiness seems made to be shared. We need to belong, to find intimacy with others is so universal and even ordained, you maybe wondering, why is it so complex? Why is it sometimes so difficult? I wonder the same thing. We all need camaraderie, affection, love. whether we like it or not, each of us has an shakable dependence on others. Intimate attachments to other human beings are the hub around which a person’s life revolves.
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It Takes Time
- 2008-06-18 (Wed)
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Everything on earth has its own time. And there are no shortcuts to maturity. most people says that women gets easily mature than men regardless of age and life experiences. The development of character cannot be rushed. like physical and emotional growth, takes time. We want to quick fix, the shortcut, the on-the-spot solution. Sometimes I feel I want a sermon, a seminar, or an experience that will instantly resolve all problems, remove all temptation, and release me from all growing pains. But real maturity is never the result of a single experience, no matter how powerful or moving. Growth is gradual. Sometimes I asked myself Am I slow learner? or I have a lot to unlearn? Growth is often painful and scary. Some says and I believe that my character is the sum total of my habit. You can’t claim to be kind unless you are habitually kind, you show kindness without thinking of it. I can’t claim to have integrity unless it is my habit to always be honest. I learn something today from my colleague. “God is never in a hurry, but he is always on time”. From now on I will bear in mind and always remember how far I’ve come, not just how far I have to go. I am not where I want to be, but neither Am I where I used to be. If it seems slow, do not despair, for these things will surely come to pass. Just be patient!
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Take me to your Heart
- 2008-06-17 (Tue)
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It’s a songs of heart. A song that touched my heart. It feels good when I inspire others of being in love. This song makes my day happy and colorful. I just wish there is someone who inspires me in my everyday lives. Being alone in my life and far from my love is not easy to live with. when I think of him sometimes I feel so unlucky because were far from each other. Longing for his presence makes me more sad and lonely. Going home after work is hard thinking that no one waits for me. No one can comfort me when I’m disappointed. when I’m tired and need someone to share my thought and dreams. Thank you for this song and to my friend. She gives me hope and learn to wait for the right time, that there is someones waiting and just for me. And saying “take me to your heart”. take me to your soul and be my guiding star. Bring me far away and take me to heaven where I can be happy. I want to feel all those feelings before I get old. A someone who makes me wanna sing and shows me what really love is. I know love will finds a way.
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