My Heart And Me

I just want to share with you the love story of two person that are both close to my heart. There was a 21 yrs. handsome young man and a 17 yrs. pretty girl who feel in love with each other but the parents of the girl disagree on their relationship because of the life status of the poor young man. They were both hurts and disappointed but the love in their hearts remains. As time goes by and to make the story short . They’re both married and have their own family now. The woman had 3 kids and they live abroad and the man was so unlucky to have a child. The woman felt emptiness and loneliness with her life even she had everything in life because she’s looking and longing for the first and true love that she had lost for so many years. Suddenly, because of the technology they saw each other through us by the Friendster’s account. At first they’re both ashamed to admit that they still love each other because of their situation. But “true love” finds a way after 21 yrs. they’re back to each others arms. In the eyes of God and in our society this kind of relationship is not accepted. “Right love at the wrong time.” I felt sad for them but still thankful that before they get old they knew and they finally found their very special love. Their “Love Story” inspires me and give me hope that I can find my true and very special love. This couple happens to be my cousins and I love them both. To both of you I wish you all the best and be patient. God knows in His time you will be together forever.

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Yesterday night. I received a txt message from my best friend. It bothers and it keeps me thinking until I went to bed. The message was “I want to cry my friend. They make me feel how far was the gap and where my life and social status is. Thanks for you because you never make me feel that way when were together.” In our society the social and life status of one’s individual is being judge by the people around us. It matters to some people which society you belong. If you belong in a higher society they will give you respect and treat you in a nice way. If you are just an ordinary and simple person, people will put you down. Life is unfair but in the eyes of God we are all fair. I understand my friend’s feelings. I felt and I experience it before when someone puts me down. But instead of taking it negative, I take it positively and it helps me to build my strength to improved my attitude towards life and towards people who puts me down. The quality of our life is more dependent on our perspective than our circumstances. A loving person lives in a loving world. A hostile person lives in a hostile world; everyone we meet is our mirror. My friend feel sorry for herself for having a low self-stem because of her society she belong. One thing I can say. Just smile and say thank you to those people who see that faults, our attitude towards them and theirs towards us will go downhill fast. Forgive those who hurt us show love and be good even others are not and help people see life through the eyes of faith and hope that someday will have a great life and having a great attitude.

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Women are said to be in touch with their emotional lives. How many times have you been absent-minded or irritable because of you’re preoccupied with problems concerning family and personal life? I got so emotional this past few days. I got irritated on my daughter’s behavior. She’s acting like a spoiled brat one. As a mother I felt bad and disappointed. It is normal to feel depressed or angry at times. Emotions that are part of human experience become difficult to handle when we can’t identify them. It’s more difficult for me because I don’t know the difference between feeling the emotion and acting on the emotion. I tend more toward “feeling” the emotions, that sometimes leads to poor decision making, thus affecting various aspects of my life. I told to myself. Don’t let personal matter affect your work. when it comes to my family sometimes it’s hard for me to handle difficult situations, if I know how it would be easier for me to cope with my changing moods. Success is achieved by mastering my temper instead of allowing it to master me, and by making decisions that will benefit myself and others. Like what I’ve read in a book. “Good temper, like a sunny day, brightens up everything.” The same attitude is important when we try to master our emotions.

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