My Heart And Me

Has there been someone in your life who has wounded you through his or her words? A man’s tongue is soft, and bone doth lack; yet a stroke therewith may break a man’s back. The person that I loved most was the one who hurt me the most. Some wounds I carry with me every where and though the cut is long gone the scar and the pain still lingers. Words is only words but some words she uttered cuts like a knife in my entire being. Words reveal, reinforce, and can reform the condition of my heart. What we say can mean life or death. If you don’t mean it better not to say it. Sometimes I’m tactless too. I say what is in my mind and heart. I learn from it. Less talk less mistakes. The nature of our words does have a highly predictive and efficacious quality. We can curse life with our words and bring it to pass, or choose to bless our life and the life of others. Words are the powerful force, for both good and bad, in the world. I believe when we hold the key to life change at the tip of our tongues, and say something good words in our lips. God is bound to make it come true. Assuming that words derive from experience, but it is often the case that experiencing is a result of our words. Aren’t satisfied with your heart? Change your words. Lord give me a pure heart-and let it start with my words.

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My friend asked me. Why I have to set a high standards when choosing a man. Many men approaches me that they will give the sun and the moon. I heard many promises and sweet words. It’s nice to hear but in reality it will never be. In my past relationship, I get hurt and I learned my mistakes. My best wasn’t good enough to worked it out. Since then I promise to myself that no one can hurt me again. Setting high standards when choosing a man is not that easy. I’m not a “hard to please” individual, a choosy one maybe, because I know my worth. After my failed relationship, I learned to be very careful and I learn to love myself more. And hoping, I can get a partner that I deserve. I know God will send and ask me to use my mind and heart to choose from “a few good men.” Anyway my life is really up to me. My success and my failure depends on my choices. My purpose will set my standards and my goals will serve as my road map to the person I dream of and it will mean to be.

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Have you experienced or do you feel pressured to be perfect in certain areas of your life? In some point of my life, I’m wondering and thinking if God measures my performance the same way I do? Setting priorities when it comes to work sometimes is hard. which comes first? Is it the responsibilities? Or the work that makes us happy and give us fulfillment in life? My priorities reflects my life. When life is getting difficult people prioritize work more than anything in order to provide the needs and give comfort to their families. We are humans. All of us need someone to lean on when life is getting harder. One friend told me once. “As important and necessary as work is, a truly successful person puts God first, family second, and work last.” I agree. For God gave me what I need to live for. The things that matter most in this world, can never be held in our hands. Living the rest of my life for the glory of God will require a change of priorities and everything else. Sometimes mean choosing a difficult path instead of an easy one. As long as I know what to be prioritize and choosing the better thing that it will never be taken away from me. Lets take time to live and set our priorities that matter most in our life.

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