My Heart And Me

It was a busy day for me and a little bit tired. To feel relax before going to bed. I just want to share with you the jokes of the day. The jokes that I hardly laughed when I read it in my email inbox tonight. I hope you enjoy it too. Happy viewing!

Filipino’s love jokes especially when there is a relevance to our every day life. No wonder why Filipino’s are one of the happiest people in the world.

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This past few days I was so confused about my daughter’s behavior. Now I know why. She thinks that she might lose her mother. She is confused. Last night we had a heart to heart talked. I asked her why she’s not behaving well. She asked me “Mama why your not staying with me in my papa’s house? why you have another house to stay? I don’t want another mother, I want only you.” She’s so afraid that somebody might replace me as her mother. She was introduced by her father to her future step mother last friday night. I assured her that no one can replace me as her mother. I know her feelings in her young age I feel the pain in her heart for seeing her parents lives separately and having a broken family. Every time she asked about our situation the harder for me to explain, and I need to consider her feeling not to be get hurt by my answers. She is growing so fast so many questions in her young mind. I know it’s part of growing up. I remember my friend told me once. In every broken family the children suffer the most. We can easily moved on but for the children they can never be. Their traumatic experience will leave a deep scar in their entire life. In time she will get over the pain. And accept the reality through my love and guidance.

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Yesterday late afternoon when I was in the office I made a call to my sweet and lovable daughter. We talked of so many things she did in school, she told me that they will watch a movie together with her father and she wants me to join them. suddenly out of nothing she cried so hard and she said “Mama I want to to be with you, I want to see you now. I need you.” At first I’m so happy because she miss me too. But I wonder why she said “I need you” while crying so hard over the phone. I was surprised and my heart beats so fast. When my daughter says “I need you” and I want to see you” those magic word melts my heart. A words that hard to resist especially when it comes from your loved ones. Being a mother any sweet words from my sweet and loving daughter is a magic words for me. Those magic words of my daughter made me realize, that regardless of age we all need to be needed, if we all learn to say when we feel it, doors closed tightly to others will swing open for us. In any relationship we all need to feel the presence of our loved one’s. I have seen men use it successfully to attract women again and again. Women are not looking for weaklings, of course, but they do want someone who needs them. I learn something from my loving daughter. It take a risk of becoming open about my needs some person once in a while will not respond. But it is sad if I will stop expressing needs to my loved ones. Lets talk freely about our feelings.

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