My Heart And Me

My cousin went back to manila from our province. For almost three weeks that were together we had enough time to know each others well. We have many things in common. knowing her makes me more closer to her. I’m beginning to admire her for having a good qualities of today’s woman. “Your ability to express love to others is linked to your ability to love yourself”. She’s one of the few person that I want to keep the friendships we have now. The value of a person is not measured on an applause meter, It is measured in the heart and mind of God. I was a person who struggle with my self-image. My experiences in life makes me more stronger and open minded in any aspect of life. As my cousin told me. God look at me at the basis of my potential nor my past or or even my present circumstances. Most importantly, God offered us a living water that satisfy the emptiness and longing of our soul, a drink of water that would provide renewal for our parched soul and life. We both agree that we have to honor the kindness of God for giving us the outer and inner beauty we have in our life. Even if I feel as needy as a lonely individual, I assured that God provides me with all the reasons I need to love and embrace myself. Keeping myself image is not easy like life challenges. A challenges is not to try harder, but to trust more in God!

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Some relationships come so easily and are so healthy and affirming, while with others, we struggle to connect. Maybe we aren’t in a state of open hostility, but affection and love are hard to give and receive. I came to think what causes difficult relationships? Different points of view. Competition. Bad first impressions. Inability to communicate effectively. The nanny of my daughter confided me about her concerns to the family she’s currently working. She’s having a difficulty on how to adjust and accept the situation of having a new member in the family. I can’t blame her for she’s loyal to me. “People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care”. Being the nanny of my children I cared for her. I know if not for me and for my kids she wants to give up and leave the house. Sometimes she can’t bear the demand of her boss to treat the new member (her boss girlfriend) like the way she treated me. I understand her feelings. Respect have to be earn not to give it freely to a stranger. We all have our own minds and feelings no one can dictate us what to do as long as we know that we do the right thing for our own good and for others as well. We don’t need to please everybody. To serve is beautiful, but only if it is done with joy and a whole heart and a free mind.

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If you don’t really love someone don’t show any motive that can cause them to love you. All of us take love seriously if we fall, but in temptation we’re not that strong. Lets use our heart to take care the person we love. And use your mind to take care of yourself. Hold on to the things that you don’t want to see others to hold it. If you love someone and doesn’t love you back, let it be somehow you might feel the same way. And if your not happy of being with someone do what your heart feels. Letting go is never been easy, and holding on can be as difficult. Yet, strength measured not by holding on but by letting go. If your love don’t love you don’t feel bad because someone loves you too and you don’t. (quits). Loneliness nor fear the hardiest part of being alone but to accept that there are millions of people in the world but no one fights to be with you. If you love someone and not worth of your love and hurt you don’t blame your heart. Your heart beats to supply blood into your body. Now if your good in anatomy blame the hypothalamus that controls your emotions. And don’t blame it to your body organs of having bad feelings and having regrets in your life. Bear in mind you can only be happy if you will accept that its not the heart, mind, liver or intestine of yours that cause your pain in your life. But it’s YOU is to be blame of. This is my words of wisdom it may sounds corny, just having fun in this crazy world. Life is too short have fun and live life to the fullest.

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