2009-02-22

The Nanny of my children open up to me about her love life. This past three weeks she’s been dating her text mate for more than three months. She admitted the first time she met the guy she felt something special. I saw it through her eyes. She told me that she’s confused of her feelings towards the man, she likes him and she wanted to know him more. But the man wanted an immediate answer if she likes or love him. She told me, she wanted to experience a long term courtship because she never experienced it before. I advised her, “be true to yourself, if you really like the man tell him what you feel, you are already 30 years old, you are old enough to handle a relationship, it doesn’t matter how long or short the courtship is, what matter is the feelings you have to each other.” The man had many past relationships and he belongs to a well of family. I felt she is ashamed to be part of his society. She’s got nothing to be ashamed or insecure because she’s a nice person, she graduated in college with a bachelors degree, a frustrated teacher to be specific. I can feel that the man is sincere to his feelings for her. I told her “why don’t you try and give him a chance to prove it to you that his love is true, who knows maybe he’s the one that your looking for to be your life partner.” She’s afraid to have a relationship for she might experience what I’ve experience in life. Love is a game you can win or lose, what matters is how you play the game of love. To you my dear nanny as what you said, give yourself a chance to love him and to love you as well. Good luck wish you all the best! wedding bells? not now my children don’t agree that idea. Lol!

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