2009-02

The Nanny of my children open up to me about her love life. This past three weeks she’s been dating her text mate for more than three months. She admitted the first time she met the guy she felt something special. I saw it through her eyes. She told me that she’s confused of her feelings towards the man, she likes him and she wanted to know him more. But the man wanted an immediate answer if she likes or love him. She told me, she wanted to experience a long term courtship because she never experienced it before. I advised her, “be true to yourself, if you really like the man tell him what you feel, you are already 30 years old, you are old enough to handle a relationship, it doesn’t matter how long or short the courtship is, what matter is the feelings you have to each other.” The man had many past relationships and he belongs to a well of family. I felt she is ashamed to be part of his society. She’s got nothing to be ashamed or insecure because she’s a nice person, she graduated in college with a bachelors degree, a frustrated teacher to be specific. I can feel that the man is sincere to his feelings for her. I told her “why don’t you try and give him a chance to prove it to you that his love is true, who knows maybe he’s the one that your looking for to be your life partner.” She’s afraid to have a relationship for she might experience what I’ve experience in life. Love is a game you can win or lose, what matters is how you play the game of love. To you my dear nanny as what you said, give yourself a chance to love him and to love you as well. Good luck wish you all the best! wedding bells? not now my children don’t agree that idea. Lol!

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In my work, I meet different kind of people. Mostly I met are professionals working in a top big local and multinational companies. Yesterday, I had an appointment to one of the top executive of one of the multinational company in the country. The security was so tight, inside the premises they had their own car services for the visitors and company guests. From the security officers to the highest executive officers they are well mannered and accommodating to their guests. When I entered the room I feel so ashamed because they are staring at me while walking towards to the executive officer. At first I was so nervous but when he smile and said “Hi Miss Malou pleasure to meet you, a good looking and a charming woman we finally met”. What a complement from the person that first time I met. I was so starstruck on him, he’s so gentleman and a soft spoken person. He’s so kind and he ease my nervousness. I feel so comfortable while talking to him. I believe first impressions last. He’s one of the rare breed of few good and gentleman on earth. It’s rare for me to admire one person especially on men. he’s not so good looking but having such qualities of a man for me he’s a perfect gentleman. I admit my standards when it comes to men kind a high. Respectable, educated, kind, soft spoken, gentleman especially intelligent man caught my attention. I can’t believe that there’s still a man like him. I can’t help myself not to admire him. I’m looking forward of meeting him again and give me an opportunity to do business and be one of our client in the near future. Meeting people like him inspires me to do my work perfectly.

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Valentine’s Day had passed by and its another ordinary day for me. I celebrated the hearts day with my children, we took dinner and they’re so sweet and thoughtful for giving me a flowers like they used to. I’m so happy and I feel so special of their thoughtfulness. Many close friends and relatives greeted me on that special day, but someone who is so close and special to my heart never bothered to greet me back, it hurts, not to be remembered by him the feeling and to think that I’m not really loved by him is enough for me to realize and accept the truth. The truth sets me free! Actions speaks louder than words. I never found a love that I long for so long but I’m still thankful to God for He let me feels the love He has for me. God knew when I would finally get it and He saved that special man for such a time as this. I can be wiser and not end up annihilating myself in the temple of repeated mistakes, and to be found in the truth stronger than ever and to love and give better to the one who is more deserving. I’m free enough to wait for a man, not just any man but the man who understands and knows what love means and lives what God says… A real love, a strong love… A man who will let me feel that everyday will always be a Valentine’s Day.

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