- 2008-11-15 (Sat) 20:32
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Families are out of control. Because of the chaos and stress, many of us end up not feeling well. Last night something bad happens between me and my youngest sister. After a night out party together with my brothers and sisters. I was so disappointed on her. I never thought that she can do something bad. To disrespect me and said bad words against me. I admit, I shouted at her, my feeling of anger ruled over my temper. I was out of control of my emotions. I’m just a human being. I don’t deserved to be treated that way especially by my sister that I loved and cared for. I’m welling to extend my help when she needs it. And I deserved to be respected as her older sister. I apologized for raising my voice on approaching her that way but she shouldn’t shouted at me and said some hurtful words. In every family, it’s normal to have misunderstanding, we have good and bad sides. We can choose whom we want to be a friend but we can not choose whom will be the member of our family. Even we are one family and we don’t grew up together in one roof, the closeness was there especially now that we have our own family. It was a traumatic experience for us after a night out party. Everything happens for a reasons. Thanks for that incident, I got to know her more. Never in my wildest dream, I couldn’t imagine her negative returns on my effort. It’s sad to know and feel how far people who are close to my heart doesn’t know how to appreciate my effort to be close to them.
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- liza 08-11-15 (Sat) 23:29
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Hi cuzz,sorry to hear it from you,of what had happened last night.As what i had said to you that we the elder who will always understand to them no matter what they had committed,i had experience it very well and till now i am experiencing it.But i just leave it to GOD,praying that HE will enlighten her mind as soon as possible.But the problem is they realize it when its too late already.By this kind of people they need a very long patience,but the problem is until when we can be patience to them?Since when they are in good condition,they dont remember us elder,but when they are in trouble they do remember us,and keeps in promissing many,many things,but we always do remember that”PROMISES ARE MADE TO BE BROKEN”.So my dear cuzz ,i want to ask a a question?ARE WE ARE HERE IN THIS CHRISTIAN WORLD TO SUFFER ALWAYS?
- sam 08-11-16 (Sun) 9:04
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haaa shout ka…
so bad and sad…
u r small heart na. she is ur younger sister.
take it easy na. have a nice day! - Malou 08-11-16 (Sun) 10:22
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Hi Cuzz
Thank you for enlightening my feelings.
your right sometimes is hard to be elder, we are the one who is responsible of anything. To be patient and understanding to the younger ones. As their elder sister I suffered a lot, sacrifices for their good, its like the 2nd mother to them. I want to feel the feeling of having an older sister, someone will help and comfort me in hard times. God have a plans for us who suffer in this world. take care and happy weekend!
GOD LOVE US! - Malou 08-11-16 (Sun) 10:23
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Hello Sam
I’m only human. thanks for your concern appreciated.
Happy weekend!
Name: Malou