Love, Sex And Relationships…

Keanu Reeves says to Sandra Bullocks in the movie Speed,” I’ve heard that relationships based on intense experiences never work.” And Sandra replies “Okay, we’ll have to base on sex.” For me, as a woman it was ridiculous. “If your relationship is based on sex, you don’t have a relationship.” Some people believe and choose sex because they are in love and having sex brings them closer together, I agree in some ways. I don’t want to be hypocrite, if I love the person, I will show my love to him and I will never regret by doing it with the person I really love. And realizing that we were more in love with each other than ever. Having guilt-free sex helped us to love each other all the more. Sex can bring two people closer together for a time. And I think the problem with using sex as a means to more intimacy is that it soon becomes substitute for emotional intimacy itself. I believe couples who put their sexuality on fast forward-circuit the normal progression of linking their hearts and soul. And I do believe also using sex to speed up the process doesn’t work; not for the long haul. Sex-too soon keeps that from happening. some ways creates an illusion of intimacy that fades with the fire of passion. According to psychologist “There is so much use of the body as a substitute for psychological intimacy,” “It’s must easier to jump in bed with someone than it is to share your fears and anxieties.” For me it’s true and he got a point but it will still depend on the couple how they handle their relationships. I still consider the fact and thinking that I don’t delude myself into thinking that sex brings closer together in any lasting or meaningful way. We all have our own minds and hearts what to believe in. It is depends on the person and setting boundaries is a must and it is a decision we make on our own and talk over with our partner.

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