Hurts…

I feel terribly hurt. I was hurt by someone who is so close to my heart. I considered him as my best friend. Because of some personal reason he decided not to be my best friend. Getting hurt is part of humanity. Getting hurt or causing hurt to others will always be part of our lives for as long as we are in this imperfect world, living with imperfect people and with our imperfect selves. When I love, I risk getting hurt. The fuller I love, the higher the risk of deeper hurts. I could isolate myself from hurts. If you want to avoid of getting hurt, don’t ever love. Do not enter into a meaningful relationships; I have to turn my heart into stone. Stop being a human being; become a piece of wood-without feelings, without relationships, without love, and without hurts. But, I’m thankful, even if hurts is a necessary part of our humanity and a necessary risk from genuine loving and sincere caring for others, hurt may be minimized and managed. It’s so traumatic for me. The friendship that I treasure went to waste. Hurt feelings are inevitable. Lord give me strength to overcome the hurt in my heart.

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