My Heart And Me

There’s a reason why flowers are pretty. Flowers are colourful in order to be attractive in the green sea of forest. Flowers communicate information about themselves to animals and insects, telling them where there is a source of food and about their condition. Humans also find flowers beautiful. When someone gives me flowers to express their emotions I feel so happy and appreciated. Flowers makes my day so colorful. Every person gives off certain signals, make them desirable to a potential mate. They are coded messages transmitted and then received back, which tell another person how suitable they might be for our purposes. For a man, attraction occurs on a biological level, when a woman displays attributes that may allow him to successfully pass his genes on to the next generation. For a woman, an attractive man is one who, on a biological level, can provide food and safety for her during the process of child rearing, which explains why women are generally attracted to older men. “Women like older men because they have more experience and greater access to resources.” In my experiences, men prefer looks to brain because most men see better than they can think. A woman’s appearance and body and what she can do with it is more attractive to men than her intelligence or assets. Men and women have each own beauty. We all need to realize what really matters in this world is our relationships to both sexes. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

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Late afternoon today, me and my colleagues had a simple get together. We talked about what happened behind our event last week. Making fun to each other of our funny and stressful moment during the party. Suddenly we talked about their girlfriends and their ex-girlfriends who were there in the event. One of them share his personal views about woman. At the age of 24, he likes having a romantic relationship to a woman older than him. He added, “mature woman knows how to handle one relationships, not jealous type and let me do things I want to do, not a control freak, Unlike younger ones so stressful.” And I added “someone who are financially stable?” He smiled and said no! I’m just attracted to a woman who are older than me, the financial stability is a plus factor.” Now a days some men are being practical too. Some are looking not only for inner and outer beauty, who are financially stable as well. I agree with him. I’m attracted also to those men who are older than me. I have suitors who are younger and older than me. I like the older ones because they are matured enough and understanding in many ways. And someone who can control my craziness sometimes, and someone who will teach me and to learn more about life and relationships. We all have our own preferences in choosing our life partner younger or older than us. what matter most is the love and respect to each other.

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Why men most of them are so immature. Yesterday I was so angry to the father of my children. I was expecting my children will come to me after they went to the cemetery. The nanny texted me their where about. When night time comes I asked the nanny what time they will come. She said they still waiting for the advise then suddenly she said to me that they will not come to my place because the father of my children is not feeling well. He stayed in his room the whole day because his mother got mad at him. So unreasonable not to bring my children to be with me. Until now he never change. His so dependent to his mother. At the age of 35 he can’t live and can’t decide on his own mind. He let his mother rule his life even though he has 3 children to take care of. I tried to understand his situation but sometimes when my patience pushed to the limit I burst, I’m only human. I sacrificed a lot just for the good and sake of my children. He always thinks his own good and pleasure. I was about to call him last night but thank God I got to control my emotion and think not to call him. I anticipated what will happen if I will. It’s not worth to talk to him, things might get worst, he’s not a kind of a person that can easily understand my feelings as a mother. Again I’m the one who has the capacity to understand the situation. I just told myself. Remember, regardless of age men never get mature when it comes to their minds. All men are the same. They just have different faces so you can tell them apart.

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