- 2008-11-26 (Wed) 23:50
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I had a dinner with my very best friend. It’s been a 1 year and half we didn’t see each other. We miss each others company. We talked many things from the past, sad and happy moments. I remember the times when I visited him in his office and all of his colleagues was so fascinated because he has a friend who always visited him after office hour. I’ve meet many people in his office and some are still my friends ’til now. Our relationship of being friends is extra ordinary. I remember the times when I was so down and was about to give up he’s always there for me. Tonight, I discovered his secret he revealed to me accidentally through our conversation. Once, in his married life he was unfaithful to his wife. He was caught in the act by his wife during their younger years and the person involved was a friend of them. I was shocked, I never imagine that he could do that to his wife. I told him “ones your a cheater you will always be a cheater!” he just smile and said, that’s a mans world! No comment. A double standard society. So unfair really but it’s depends on the personality of ones individual it doesn’t matter what races or nationality. Men are men, they were born polygamous. They are not contented of having one girlfriend or wife they will still look for another to prove to their selves that they are ‘macho’ a manhood and egoistic behavior.
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- Anonymous 08-11-27 (Thu) 18:34
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Hello! not all men are the same in nature.
there’s a faithful and good man out there.
don’t despair that man will to you soon.
take care and good day. - Malou 08-11-27 (Thu) 23:43
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Hi Anonymous
Thanks for your comment.
Yeah, I still believe there’s a few good man out there
take care too and God bless! - anonymous 08-11-28 (Fri) 0:48
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being unfaithful is not the question of machoism (machismo). it has nothing to do with being macho, a spanish term indicating manliness or virility which not necessarily attributed to sexual prowess since they are two different things. being unfaithful relates to a deviant behavior. not a normal thing to do. neither it is natural or something derived from man’s nature. neither it is an exclusive behavior of man or belongs only to man’s world. experience tells us that there good numbers of women who are unfaithful, but women, however, are more secretive and discreet since it is more of a taboo than an accepted behavior. so the figure seems to be an exception rather than the rule when in reality there is a significant number of incidence. having a macho mentality or being a macho is more of the tendency of man to be more of dominating attitude, sheer show of power and authority..contrary to effeminacy…a kind of attitude or tendencies. it has insignificant or no relation at all to being unfaithful to a partner. an action which indicates a deviant to a normal or natural action…which implies rightness or wrongness of an action..a moral issue. being macho is neither related to masochism which is an action inflicting pain to oneself to have a sexual gratification. being a macho is amoral but being unfaithful is a moral issue.what i am trying to say: being a macho is neither right and wrong since it is not a specific moral action,it is a quality but being unfaithful is a question of right and wrong action. ( a moral issue).
- Malou 08-11-28 (Fri) 21:53
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Hello Anonymous
Amen! very well said. I know who you are, now your posting your comment thanks for that opinion. Now your talking hehe…
are you talking about yourself??? joke!
take care and keep it up for being opinionated person.
Name: Malou