- 2008-06-10 (Tue) 19:39
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I’m not comfortable to talk and write about this concern by many individuals. I’m not the type of a person who can talk directly from my heart when it comes to sexuality. but I tried to be open minded about it. Sexuality throbs within us as movement toward relationship, intimacy, and companionship. Sexuality is an integral part of who we are. Just because we are sexual doesn’t mean we have to fall prey to the animal instinct of “doing it”. Sex has become one of the most discussed subjects in modern times. The victorians pretended it did not exist, the modern pretend that nothing else exists. If you’re an insecure woman you’re probably asking is “Am I desirable?” You see sex as a barometer of your worthiness and as a means to relational connectedness. Wanting to be desirable, is not a bad thing. And if you’re a man the primary sexual question is often “Am I capable?” The insecure man tends to see sex in terms of power and performance, competition and achievement. For him, it can even become a numbers game. I think it will end up making you feel more self-denigrated, desperate, alone and insecure. So what’s a sexual being to do? We have our choices in life. My choice is to find a man who believes in “honoring” women, who would never “use” a woman to get sex. In my line of thinking sex is a way of expressing feelings you can’t express with words. If we’re in love it can’t be wrong. I believe that love sanctifies sex.
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Comments (Close):8
- jj 08-06-11 (Wed) 19:36
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sex????!!……….just for fun!
- Malou 08-06-11 (Wed) 20:59
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Hello jj
How are you? Thanks for your comment.
Sex? for fun? I respect your opinion…
but I disagree. it should be done with love
not for fun. Have a nice day! - Mochini 08-06-12 (Thu) 5:48
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Sex holds the attention. If any wanderings of the mind from the immediate sexual situation are permissible, it is only to other sexual fantasies. It bespeaks a certain lack of involvement to be ruminating then about one’s next choice of automobile. In part, the focus of attention is on how you are touched and what you are feeling, in part on how you are touching the other person and what he or she is feeling.
The realm of sex is or can be inexhaustible. There is no limit to what can be learned and felt about each other in sex; the only limit is the sensitivity or responsiveness or creativity or daring of the partners. There always are new depths — and new surfaces — to be explored.
Sex also is a mode of communication, a way of saying or of showing something more tellingly than our words can say. Yet though sexual actions speak more pointedly than words, they also can be enhanced by words, words that name one’s pleasure or lead ahead to greater intensity, words that narrate a fantasy or merely hint at exciting ones that cannot comfortably be listened to.
- Malou 08-06-12 (Thu) 19:34
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Hello Mochini
How are you my friend?
Thanks for your effort to comment very much appreciated!
Take care and God bless!!! - Mochini 08-06-13 (Fri) 13:42
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You’re welcome, I’m just always here… Stay cool!!!
- rhea 08-06-13 (Fri) 17:55
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What is peculiar to modern societies is not that they consigned sex to a shadow existence, but that they dedicated themselves to speaking of it ad infinitum, while exploiting it as the secret.
- Malou 08-06-13 (Fri) 18:53
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Hi Mochini
Thanks I’m so touched.
Happy weekend and take care! - Malou 08-06-13 (Fri) 19:00
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Hi rhea
thanks for your touching comment.
Remember my friend sex is no test of love, for it is precisely the very
thing one wants to test that is destroyed by the testing.
Love you friend… God bless!!!
Name: Malou