Boy To Man…

I had a heart to heart talk with my colleague yesterday after work. We had our weekly meeting while waiting for our colleagues to come, I asked him if they will watch a concert tonight and he told me “yes! together with my girl friend.” I said wow! I wish I’m your girl friend, lol! Then I asked him, how long you’ve stayed together? more than three years he said. In three years of being together have you experience of courting or like another girl? He said “no! sometimes when I saw a girl that looks so attractive I admire her beauty but to get her attention or get her number or introduce myself to her? never! I am happy and I love my girlfriend and I’m afraid of “karma.” And I said to him “your girl friend is so lucky to have you, I wish I have a boy friend like you, faithful, kind and responsible.” He smiles and said “I was just tired of playing around, when I was in third year college when I met her, at first I’m not so serious in any relationship then and we don’t have like a courtship stage. We we’re friends and I just asked her if she can be my girl friend then it’s magic we’re compatible and our relationship last long. We had misunderstandings and fights but we settled it through giving space to each other and think over the problem, and most importantly “never argue.” She made me a big change of me, he changed me and this is the results. At the age of 23 he’s so responsible and mature enough to handle a relationship. No doubt that he’s one of a few good men on earth. He is the youngest among of his friends who are my colleagues in our company, two of them are enjoying their youthful, meeting girls, and fooling around. Men are really the same they all have to meet the right girl or person that destined for them to make them what they are to be. Men needs to experience a kind of commitment and unconditional love to be able to give it away.

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