Blessings Of A Mother…

It’s been two weeks I didn’t see my daughters, they’re so busy on their summer vacation attending parties and out of town vacations with their fathers family and relatives. Today, is the rest day of their nanny and it’s bonding time for us. My nine year old daughter asked me while I was taking her a bath, “Mama why is it my nipple is so itchy and I felt my breast is changing getting a bit big? Am I growing now? And I said “yes it’s a part of growing up it’s normal all girls experience it.” I remember she will turn 10 years old this coming July. And she added “Mama do you have hair in your private organ? what about my big sister and even my father have too?” and I said “yes” all grown up people had it. when you grow up like me you will have it too! and she said “Oh! I’m growing up now? She told me “I’m not excited to grow up like my big sister I want to stay what I am now! I’m still your little baby girl!” Lol! She’s growing up now, so many questions in her young mind. I remember when I was at her age, I asked the same questions to my aunt. Being a mother I’m so happy that my daughter asked me those personal questions, I feel the love and the closeness to each other still there even we live separately because of the situation we have. Having three loving daughters is not easy for me, each of them have different attitudes and have each uniqueness as individuals but they have something in common, they’re all sweet and loving daughters. My relationship with my daughters continues to be a source of joy and sometimes challenges-long after when they become adults. I don’t choose my family. They are God’s gift to me, as I am to them.

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