Cycle Of Mistakes…

I was complaining to my male friend about my personal life, ha said “You don’t want to have a boyfriend because if you did, you would make the wrong choices again. Nothing is wrong with you, its the men you choose to get involved with.” I was speechless. How could I have overlooked this very simple fact? What was it in me that drew me into the same episode of the same disappointing soap opera time and time again. I had trouble recognizing what the real thing was. If I continued on in ignorance, I’m in danger of losing real love, even if I managed to grasp it for a time. Like me, have you found yourself going around in circles of making the same mistakes over and over again? It may have been a cute joke but it was a sad commentary on my all too real life. But there’s one who knows the truth. When He decides it’s time to take our lives to another level, He turns on the light exposing the darkness, the blind spots, the hidden things in our hearts that keep us in bondage to past mistakes and hindrances. Some says the truth hurts. But in reality the truth will set us free- if, that is, we take responsibility for it.Truth must be acknowledge and accepted. God’s power to work a transformation in us. As I lay myself trusting God, how can I discern which man He has created for me? How can I embrace and who to avoid? I ask my friends what they have observed with regards to my love interests. They have the same answer “wait for the perfect match and the deserving one.” God ordained for my personal benefit, protection and blessing.

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