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The Questions

2008-04-17 (Thu) 19:14
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Last night while were lying on my bed with my 4 years old daughter, asked me. Mama why is it your house is different from my house? Why were not living in one house? Why your living alone? I want to stay with you, I want you to be with me always. I want you to take care of me and to send me to school. Why is it my yaya instead of you takes care of me? Those questions of my little angel melts my heart. I don’t know what to say! I was so shock! I know its a simple question with a simple answer. But I was speechless, I don’ know how to explain and where to begin with. I felt, am I being unfair to her? Not to tell her the truth why is it our situation is like that? The fact that she’s only 4 years old, i know kids now are more sensitive, and smart. Someday i have to tell her the truth when she’s grown up and can understand me well. I told her last night that someday we will be together. For now its ok that she have two houses to stay. And she enjoy staying with me and feel my love and care. What matter most is she feels the love of a mother and a father even they’re apart. In my experience, the most difficult questions to answer is the questions of the innocent people like my daughter. One thing I want to share “The truth will set you free, but first it may make you miserable”!

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One Friend 08-04-17 (Thu) 21:23

So many questions but the answers are so few. Always remember that what they dont know wont hurt them, there are questions that are just from curiousity, and there will always be a right time for the right answer. Just let it flow…

sam 08-04-17 (Thu) 22:12

You came to me through pain,
You came to me through terror,
A tiny piece of heaven,
You dwelled beneath my heart.

You came to me when I needed you most,
You came to me and brought with you a hope,
A gift of wonder,
You dwell forever with in my heart.

You saved me, my precious,
You saved me, my strength,
A gift sometimes misunderstood by others,
You dwell forever with in my soul.

You’re a gift of love,
You’re a gift of joy,
A treasured child of spirit, a child of light,
I love you forever, my dear, tiny one.

Malou 08-04-17 (Thu) 22:19

Hi Friend! Thanks! yeah your right some questions need to be answer in the right time.

Malou 08-04-17 (Thu) 22:26

Hi Sam! Thank you for your nice poem. I know every child is a gift of God! my precious angel is my treasure of my life.

ambhie 08-04-19 (Sat) 18:06

what a poor lil girl…live your life w/ no tears or risk & take everything as itcomes and know there is a reason for everything in your life.learn from the heart aches and mistakes.dont dwell in them.you cant change it.just learn from it! (Proverbs:) commit to the lord whatever you do,and your plans will succeed.

Malou 08-04-19 (Sat) 18:17