Irreplaceable

This past few days I was so confused about my daughter’s behavior. Now I know why. She thinks that she might lose her mother. She is confused. Last night we had a heart to heart talked. I asked her why she’s not behaving well. She asked me “Mama why your not staying with me in my papa’s house? why you have another house to stay? I don’t want another mother, I want only you.” She’s so afraid that somebody might replace me as her mother. She was introduced by her father to her future step mother last friday night. I assured her that no one can replace me as her mother. I know her feelings in her young age I feel the pain in her heart for seeing her parents lives separately and having a broken family. Every time she asked about our situation the harder for me to explain, and I need to consider her feeling not to be get hurt by my answers. She is growing so fast so many questions in her young mind. I know it’s part of growing up. I remember my friend told me once. In every broken family the children suffer the most. We can easily moved on but for the children they can never be. Their traumatic experience will leave a deep scar in their entire life. In time she will get over the pain. And accept the reality through my love and guidance.

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