Magic Words

Yesterday late afternoon when I was in the office I made a call to my sweet and lovable daughter. We talked of so many things she did in school, she told me that they will watch a movie together with her father and she wants me to join them. suddenly out of nothing she cried so hard and she said “Mama I want to to be with you, I want to see you now. I need you.” At first I’m so happy because she miss me too. But I wonder why she said “I need you” while crying so hard over the phone. I was surprised and my heart beats so fast. When my daughter says “I need you” and I want to see you” those magic word melts my heart. A words that hard to resist especially when it comes from your loved ones. Being a mother any sweet words from my sweet and loving daughter is a magic words for me. Those magic words of my daughter made me realize, that regardless of age we all need to be needed, if we all learn to say when we feel it, doors closed tightly to others will swing open for us. In any relationship we all need to feel the presence of our loved one’s. I have seen men use it successfully to attract women again and again. Women are not looking for weaklings, of course, but they do want someone who needs them. I learn something from my loving daughter. It take a risk of becoming open about my needs some person once in a while will not respond. But it is sad if I will stop expressing needs to my loved ones. Lets talk freely about our feelings.

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