Legalization…

Friday, after lunch I had a meeting with the father of my kids. A day before he asked for a personal meeting and I wondered, it’s the first time he asked for it, and I started to think, the first thing in my mind was maybe he wants to get married again and he will ask for annulment. On that day after I took my lunch I had a call from him and he told me he was in Starbucks coffee shop and I told him to wait and I’m on my way. He was so eager to talk to me. He wasn’t there when I arrive the coffee shop, I texted him to come because I still need to work after the meeting. Just a few minutes he was there and asked for my drinks and I told him “no thanks I just finish my lunch.” The first words I uttered when he sat down in front of me was “what is all about on us?” And he smiles at me and said “I’m asking a favor from you, we’re not getting any younger and I want to get married again…” I said ” you want an annulment? I knew it, I am expecting this, and he said “yes I want to settle down.” And I asked him “did you remember before I leaved our house you told me “don’t worry I will take care of our children I will give my whole life for them.” And now your asking an annulment? because you will get married again? I asked and told you many times that I want an annulment but you told me “there will be no annulment between us” but still I insisted, I will give what you want but I want my kids to be with me.” And he said “it’s only between us, our annulment, but not for the children they will stay with me even when I get married!” What? I replied. did you talk to your lawyer on that matter? I think you don’t know what your talking about! Ignorance of the law, Lol! Talk to your lawyer about the annulment and the custody of the children is my concern. I will do my best whatever it takes, I want my kids to be with me because I’m their mother and it’s my right to get the custody. And he told me ” If that’s what you want there will be no annulment, I will do the “live-in” and my kids will stay with me.” He’s so selfish! to make the long discussion short, I gave him my last word, I’m not against with the annulment, all I want is the custody of my children. He said “no” they will stay with me! Then I walked away from the table with no looking back and I told myself “he’s still the same after many years he’s still selfish and immature!” When I was in the office he called me up and I told him “go on with the annulment petition and I will file a petition for the custody of our children” he’s still talking on the phone but I put down my cellphone to stop the argument. He called me up again but I didn’t bother to answer it, I was so stress out on that day. My friends and my colleagues was so supportive on my concerns they gave me some advises what to do and to be strong whatever will be the road I will take. I know God is on my side and He will grant my wish and hope that He will let it happen.

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