Wish List

I write down the type of a man that I’m looking for. It includes all the qualities and the way I would like to be treated. What I need in a relationship, I’m speaking of realistic expectations such as considerate, communicative, have a vision of his life, have an open conscience toward God. I’m not saying he have to be rich, super fine, knows the bible by heart, movie-type romantic, sports minded and sociable. Friendship and romance should be combined, because my mate should be my best friend. I asked myself why I gave up the things on my list? I know and I consider “something is not always better than nothing.” In most cases, nothing offers more peace of mind and fewer battle scars. I want to be realistic and also be fair to my love ones. Not to expect any more from my boyfriend than what I’m willing to be myself. I want love and compassion. I won’t compromise the important things in my list. After I’ve spent time grooming myself to be a gift, I make sure he is a gift, too. Sometimes, I asked myself “would I get on a plane if I knew the pilot is not qualified to fly?” a woman who knows what she wants and what she deserves and won’t settle for less is considered a prize catch by the male species- she’s extremely beautiful and very desirable. I need to know what I deserve so I can have what I deserve. A man who will be responsible for a woman spiritually and physically, who will lay down his life for his wive, who will provide food, clothing, and safety. I review these attributes until they get down on my spirit and ring in my ears and in my heart. I deserve to be nurtured, provided for, and loved. Someone says to me ” If you find yourself feeling like a stepchild in your relationship with a man, let go and let God bring you a man who knows what time it is.” Today is the time to begin taking a realistic look at the requirements of building and maintaining a healthy, vibrant relationship. I’m talking about a love that will last the rest of my life.

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